Victories Won in the Home
therefore, my son, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus. . . . Thou
therefore endure hardness, as a good soldier of Jesus Christ. 2 Tim. 2:1-3
In all that pertains to the success of
God's work, the very first victories are to be won in the home life.
Beyond the discipline of the home and the
school, all have to meet the stern discipline of life. How to meet this wisely
is a lesson that should be made plain to every child and to every youth. It is
true that God loves us, that He is working for our happiness, and that, if His
law had always been obeyed, we should never have known suffering; and it is no
less true that, in this world, as the result of sin, suffering, trouble,
burdens, come to every life. We may do the children and the youth a lifelong
good by teaching them to meet bravely these troubles and burdens. While we
should give them sympathy, let it never be such as to foster self-pity. What
they need is that which stimulates and strengthens rather than weakens.
They should be taught that this world is
not a parade ground, but a battlefield. All are called to endure hardness, as
good soldiers. They are to be strong, and quit themselves like men. Let them be
taught that the true test of character is found in the willingness to bear
burdens, to take the hard place, to do the work that needs to be done, though
it bring no earthly recognition or reward.
There is no greater curse upon households
than to allow the youth to have their own way.
Temptation once resisted will give power
to more firmly resist the second time; every new victory gained over self will
smooth the way for higher and nobler triumphs. Every victory is a seed sown to
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